Stress makes you burn the bridges

What happens when you reach that point where it becomes difficult to make a clear decision?

I know many people that run or hide!!!

How many people stop communicating under stressful circumstances?

All of these items have the affect of burning your bridges.

When things get to the point where the glass is full, the only thing that you can think of is how fast can I empty it, if you think at all. It seems to me that when you reach that point you become non operational or non functional. You end up doing things like endlessly browsing the internet, or reading posts like this (does not mean I want you to stop). This causes more stress, which causes you to do even less than before. A piece of gum in the wrong spot can/will cause you to go over the edge. You lash out, you figuratively burn your bridges. When the fire is done, everybody has left, and you have a hard time understanding why.

There is no right solution to this, but you must at some point figure out what is causing the issue and deal with it. It could be a simple as your partner not paying the bills! Not really simple at that, but hopefully you get the drift.

Stik

 

Travelling down the road of life

When nothing works maybe you are traveling on the wrong road!

You have to ask your self at that point, do you want to be there?

Did you choose the road, or did someone push you in that direction?

It is your road not someone else’s, you are responsible for your own direction if you choose wisely then it should be an exciting trip, if not you can always change direction!

Or maybe it is time for a reflective moment!

 

The Grim Future

In most portrayals of the future, it is portrayed as grim, grey and dark. If we where to actually look at where the future has gone in the past (the old future) in most cases it has gotten better, although in everyone of those times people thought it would get worse.

I think that it is easy to think the worst and much harder to think the best.

At some point it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Stuck in Reality

There is going to come a time when it may be easier to be stuck in a game in another reality than this reality.

Then the question is going to be which reality is real?

The next question will be why would I come back?

This is when we start to die if we are not carefull!

Overload

When your cart is fully loaded, and you keep adding items to your cart, you eventually reach the point when you must drop most of the cart without worrying about what you drop until after you drop it.

You can have many regrets from unloading your cart at high speed, and it is hard to load up people, promises, things and thoughts that broke when you dropped them.

Say Again?

Repeating cycles, it seems to me that all of the things that are happening right now have already happened in the past. With different people, and different variations.

This does not mean that an exact event has already happened, although it may have. We would be pretty egoistical or self-centered to assume that we are always the first and only.

It just means that the wars come and go, which means that peace comes and goes, and that we seem to be doing the same thing over and over again hoping the next time it will be different. Just like the money and banks, why do many religions outlaw interest or the like? Could it be because it has damaged society before? Why are some animals sacred? This is all part of the repeating cycle.

So maybe 35,000 years ago in a high-rise somewhere somebody was writing about the last cycle 😉 or was that last week?

 

World Collapse, welcome to the new world order

So is the world collapsing? I think it is but then I am probably paranoid 😉

The financial markets are falling and the house of cards that everything is built on is going sideways.

The world will continue to turn when it is done, life will have changed more for some than for others. The best bet would be to make sure it never happens again.

Most of what is happing probably has more to do with greed then planning!

We can choose the blame the world, or try and take the reins in our own hands and try to make the world a better. (IN A PEACEFULL WAY)

If we look at history this is not the first and it will not be the last time it happens, let’s hope that the pendulum of thought stops in the middle. If you research history, it will probably tell you how it will happen and what you can do about it, history tends to repeat itself.

When you upset you friends or relatives

We all get upset; we all get a little bit moody, if you do forgive. Just hope that they can forgive you.

It takes a big person to admit that they could have done things differently.

The other side has to be able to do the same!

You have to wonder how many people would still be talking to each other if they had been able to swallow there pride or honor?

How many friends, fathers, mothers and anybody else!

This does not mean that I think people should forgo their honor, I just think that maybe sometimes they apply it wrong or use it as a shield.

Things always get better, after they have been worse :-)

There are times when the world seems to collide and everything seems to go wrong!

I find when I make it through the rough parts that everything goes better, especially if I look at it positively.

If we can look at things in a better light, then things will look up.

So smile when things are going wrong!

Primitive Food

Here is a question what is primitive food? What is primal food?

What did our ancestors eat?

Wheat is only traceable back about 9 to 11 thousand years and as
little as 3-5 thousand depending on the rest of the world.

So were we fish eaters, not possible some people say, fishing
was too hard, nets only existed 30-50 thousand years ago.

I would say that we continually under estimate our ancestors,
they built amazing structures and tools and the more we look the older they
find.

The only thing that I do know is that a lot of what we eat
currently is probably bad 😉

Maybe simpler is better!

Help the un helpable

How do you help someone who does not need help, but probably does?

This applies to a lot of different people, from people being unwilling to exercise to worse.

There is no right answer, you can only offer, try or more 🙁 , but you cannot force!

Of course the next question would be, what is “try” what is “more”? I have no answers for that other than whatever feels right!

You cannot take someone else’s right from them, when they are not infringing on others rights.

Points of Convergence

I have noticed that when things start to tumble, they all seem to tumble at once. I have called this a nexus, or a point of convergence.

The busier you are the more things that happen.

So what do you do about it?

If you let it flow, then after a while the wave passes you by. You just hope you don’t drown in the process!

Smile while your doing it! Knowing that you will come out stronger at the end 😉